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attraction is supposed to feel good. if what you’re feeling is bad, then that’s not attraction, and it sounds like you have some thinking to do about who you’re actually attracted to! relationships are supposed to feel good. sex isn’t supposed to make you feel uneasy. ‘coping’ with a relationship or attraction or sex isn’t the norm. everyone else is not actually 'coping’ with their relationships. if this is true for you, it’s a very good idea to look at your attractions and how they make you feel
‘what about other thing that can make attraction feel bad’ then dont get in a relationship. relationships are supposed to feel good. relationships are supposed to make you happy. if the idea of being in a relationship or being attracted to someone makes you uncomfortable, then you should not be in that relationship.
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turing-tested posted this attraction is supposed to feel good. if what you're feeling is bad, then that's not attraction, and it sounds like you...